About Fiona Fine

I savor life each spectacular day at a time.

As a self-glorified goddess in my early 50s, I’m happier and more fulfilled than I’ve ever been. And my flourishing love life is lavishly abundant with wonderful, exciting, desirable and generous men lining up to date me.

But it wasn’t always like this…

Only a few short years ago I was in despair.

After coming out of a long, unfulfilling and unsatisfying marriage I realized I had given up my sense of self in the course of those 10 corruptive years. Discouraged and disinterested, I was extremely unhappy and very unhealthy. Plus, after hearing friends’ war stories, I had no desire to hit the traditional dating scene. And I certainly wasn’t ready—or interested—in getting involved in another hardcore long-term relationship.

So in early 2007 I began my own journey to recapture my sense of self. I wanted to put the pleasure back into my existence and to start living life purely on my own terms. Essentially, I needed to reclaim that sassy, sultry siren that I was in my thirties. Only with all the wisdom and confidence that I’d gained in the years since.

As my best friend (who just happens to be a man) likes to put it, I put on my “big girl pants” and found my way out of the fog. Now I live with no limits. I created MY ideal life and I feel grateful to help other women do the same.

Since that momentous decision I have reclaimed my health, become a fan of hot yoga, got back on those black double diamond ski hills, started biking and even traveled the world. My improved health has helped me tap into that zest that had been sorely missing for years.

In the past few years my dating life has been nothing less than spectacular!

I’ve dated up to four men at once, telling them up front that I’m not looking for an exclusive relationship. My romantic world is steamier than it’s ever been. And I’ve met some amazing men—many who became good friends even if the romantic spark never lit up long term.

The world is full of fantastic men! I just needed to know who I was and what worked for me. I also had to get inside a man’s mind which wasn’t that difficult considering I have worked in a male dominated field for over 30 years. And just as important, I needed to discover how to keep my dating life fabulously fun and blissfully pleasurable.

I realize it may not be for everyone but I enjoy dating non-exclusively. The idea came unexpectedly when my best friend opened up his male mind and shared a secret with me. I realized that I had no serious desire to ‘date to mate’ at that time.  Now, my love life is all I could wish for and more than I could have imagined initially.

I make sure I’m up front from the beginning with my potential beaus and I’ve found most men are happy to have fun and enjoy pleasurable times together with little or no drama. Letting go of society’s pressure to find ‘The One’ really helped me put the fun back into dating.

Seeing the shift in my romantic world and all of the gratification that stemmed from my fun new life, friends and acquaintances began asking me for help. They wanted in on my secrets and I was happy to share the wealth and fun.

Though I’m a private person by nature, I knew that I needed to share my own story to help others. I want to start a movement that’s main focus is to put the fun back into life by creating an invigoratingly spicy dating life. And by dating multiple men for the long term, my trials, analyses and observations gave me the expertise and experience to pass on to other women.

Each day I strive to live outside my natural comfort zone. I’ve had to stop being such a perfectionist and let a little controlled chaos into my life. And the result has been nothing less than spectacular.

I’ve found that women don’t realize they have the capacity to change their circumstances. They over think but then fail to act. You can make the choice to tap into your inner goddess and become confident with yourself and your life. My mission is to guide you along the way.

Through group or personal coaching and products I can help you get the most out of your dating life. I can help you get healthy. I can help you transform a dispirited, monotonous existence into one that’s brimming with happiness and pleasure.

You’re ready to date. But you want to make sure the men you meet will adore and cherish you—not just hook up with you. You don’t want men looking to replace their mothers. You don’t want to be a maid, chef or waitress.  You want excitement and adventure. You deserve passion and devotion.

From all the women (and men!) I’ve worked with, I created a personal program to help you navigate through the twisted maze of the dating world. Full of practical advice and never-ending secrets and wisdom my coaching will help your love life thrive.

I will teach you how to master the art of flirting. You’ll learn how to be the center of the spotlight and blossom in front of an exciting, attractive, desirable single man. My Delight by Design Dating Blueprint will walk you through every step of the dating game, from confidently approaching a hot guy with aplomb to the art of handling text messages and phone calls and beginning your relationship.

Every dilemma and every roadblock will be examined. And all of the confusion will be cleared as I create a personalized plan to help you put the fun back into your own dating life.  You’ll learn which guys to engage and how to spot the players to avoid.

After 30 years of being educated and working in male-dominated fields (engineering and information technology) and with a wonderful network of close male friends, I know how men think and can show you how to understand  men so you can tap in, tune in and turn on with your life.

And with over two decades of experience coaching men and women through lifestyle changes and transitions in North America and internationally, I have the experience to guide you on your journey to joy and self-discovery.

Plus, I’ve studied many of the top relationship experts from David DeAngelo and Dr. Paul to Christian Carter and Mama Gena, extracting pieces of their wisdom and adding it to my own extensive knowledge of men and dating.

My powerful method will lead you to your most exciting and stimulating dating life ever. You’ll have more fun than you’d ever dreamed and amazing men will be ripe for the picking.

Plus, once your love life has bloomed, so will everything else! You’ll be more motivated to make healthy choices. Your mental well being will thrive. And your friends and family will notice your happy attitude. I believe that every aspect in your life is intrinsically connected. And when you are happy in one area, it spills onto everything else!

So stop complaining that dating is scary or doesn’t work for you… give my program a chance. It’s simple, it’s direct and it works wonders. GUARANTEED.

Let me know what’s missing in your dating life by contacting me at fiona@howtoputthefunbackintodating.com.

I wish for you every success in having the dating life of your dreams and truly hope you discover the goddess within.

In awe of the Goddess you can become,
Fiona Fine