Role playing with your man is one of the sexiest and most fun ways to spice things up in the bedroom! Whether you have tried it before or you have been too shy in the past, there is no better time than now to let loose and play a little. Not only does it provide you and your honey with an opportunity to act on your wildest fantasies, it will also bring you two closer together. If you feel uncomfortable initiating role play with your partner, you’re in luck because Halloween is upon us! What better way to test out the waters than during this time of year?
Talk to your man about some costume ideas, then go shopping separately to build up the anticipation and excitement. There is something incredibly sexy about the element of surprise, especially when it comes to playing dress up. Once both of you have a general idea of a scenario you like, it is important to discuss a few guidelines so that both partners are comfortable throughout the whole process. Most importantly though, have fun with it and embrace your character! This is a perfect opportunity to be someone you are not and thus do things you may have always wanted to but were too shy to try. Role playing is the surest way to maximize pleasure for you and your partner, so go ahead and indulge in some R rated play time. Here are ten suggestions for characters and scenarios that might be a good place to start.
Teacher and student. This is an easy one to start with and a spin on the classic naughty schoolgirl scenario, for those that are new to roleplaying. Have your man dress up in school uniform, and dress yourself up as a sexy, stern teacher, ruler in hand. Set up the scenario so that he is misbehaving and you need to put him in his place. Being a dominatrix in the bedroom can be very pleasure filled for you both, as you take the lead and guide him to do exactly what you want him to do.
Pilot and flight attendant. Ever fantasized about joining the mile high club? Well now is your chance to do so without having to leave your home. This scenario can be incredibly hot as you start by flirting with each other, gradually building up sexual tension and then passionately taking things to the next level. He’s the boss and you’re his subordinate in this fantasy, so let him take the lead.
Cowboys and Indians. Think strong female, strong male in this scenario. Have your partner get a lasso for this costume and give yourselves the option of having a little fun tying each other up. Indulging in a little light bondage can be very steamy if you’re both comfortable with it and agree upon how rough you want it to get. Feel free to let your imaginations run wild with this one!
Patient and Nurse. Another fun classic allowing you to play up your nurturing instincts and take care of him in more ways than one. Lend him a hand (pun totally intended) and offer up your special touch as you tend to his areas of need.
Ganster and stripper. He’s a rough around the edges gangster and you’re the sultry dancer that he wants so desperately to touch but can’t. Not yet anyway. Teasing him is the key to this scenario. Have him sit back as you put on a show, dance seductively, and slowly begin to strip. Studies have proven that when it comes to desire and pleasure that sight is actually one of the senses that has the biggest affect on the two, especially for men. The visual of your body seductively moving in front of him will make for a passionate night once he finally does get to touch you.
Cop and criminal. This is another classic scenario that can be switched up depending who wants to take the lead. A lady in charge can be pretty hot but if you would rather be in the submissive role, let him play the cop and you play the criminal. Set up the scenario so that one of you got busted doing something naughty and is getting cuffed, or mix it up and play the criminal trying to seduce the cop into letting you go. Whichever way you decide to play it, it’s sexy, exciting and will leave both of you wanting more!
The Wolf and Little Red Riding Hood. This can be a really fun one if you both commit to the characters. He should portray a very masculine and strong Wolf, to your innocent and doe eyed Little Red Riding Hood. Have him lure you into his lair and take advantage of you in the best ways possible. It’s just like the fairy tale except in this scenario, him eating you isn’t such a bad thing.
President and secretary. Need I say more? We all know how the story goes for this one but that doesn’t mean that it’s not fun. The forbidden element plays an important role in this set up that will ignite an unstoppable passion between you and your partner.
Bad boy and preppy school girl. Think classics like Grease or Breakfast Club for this one. This is a typical boy-meets-girl scenario where the bad boy gets to corrupt the innocent school girl. This is a light and fun role playing scenario that you can take in whichever direction you feel is right. Whether you let him guide you or the innocent schoolgirl is not so innocent after all is entirely up to you.
Truck driver and hitch hiker. Within this scenario you are complete strangers. You don’t know anything about each other, and yet sexually you are incredibly drawn to one another. Spare the small talk and get straight down to business. The urgency of it and the fact that you are playing complete strangers will entice you into doing things with one another that you may have not tried before. Keep in mind that he will probably never get to see this mystery woman, who he picked up on the side of the road, ever again. Fantasies are meant to be fun and allow you to explore different elements within the bedroom so don’t be shy!
Fantasy and role play in the bedroom are the surest way to fire up anyone’s libido and create a fun and exciting atmosphere. All of the costume ideas that I have mentioned can be easily worn out to a halloween party and brought back home with you after, making role play easy and accessible. You’re already going to be dressed up so why not have a little fun with it? The characters and scenarios can get as whacky and wild as you’d like if thats what you’re into. Even if you want to go as Lady and the tramp and go at it doggie style all night. You get the point. It’s your fantasy! Get creative, get wild and most importantly enjoy!