Dating Dos and Don’ts: Step Into 2012

Are you afraid to date in 2012 and making excuses or are you really to busy to fall in love?  This is a serious question that women should be asking themselves.  If you’re making excuses that you’re too busy you might just be missing out on some golden opportunities to meet some fantastic men.  You’’ll be missing out on a lot of fun in dating.

Stop making excuses and get out there this year.  Meet some great men and go on some fabulous dates.  Enjoy yourself.

Fair enough, one might think. Why pressure someone to date if they simply don’t have time or genuinely are consumed by their careers?

Here’s why: Most dating excuses are used to cover up what’s underneath the surface. They are the lies we tell ourselves to hide our fear of emotional closeness, rejection or commitment.

The key to overcoming your dating excuses in 2012 is to figure out what is really holding you back. Is the fear related to asking someone out on a date? Are you afraid of losing your personal time and space?

Once you’ve asked yourself these personal questions, start by setting some goals. Nearly half of Canadian singles will make a New Year’s Resolution to fall in love in 2012, according to the most recent Match.com survey.

When it comes to setting relationship goals, be realistic and don’t be afraid to take baby steps. For example, try going on a couple of low-key coffee dates. Going on more dates can reduce your anxieties by reinforcing that dating and meeting new people can be fun.

And don’t be afraid to ask for help from your support system. Friends and family know you better than anyone else and can help you stick to your 2012 plan, especially when times are tough.

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