Dating Dos and Don’ts: Things To Do In The New Year
The new year has always been a time for people to start fresh; to create new things in their lives and open up to new possibilities. If you’re looking to find some great dates to go on take this opportunity to create a fresh look and outlook for yourself. Be open to possibility. Get out and meet new people. Create a positive attitude for yourself so that people cannot resist being around you. Use every opportunity you are presented with as an experience you can learn from and discover things about other people.The more you get yourself out there and present yourself as available, the more likely you are to meet some fantastic men and go on some incredible dates. You’ll have more men than you know what to do with and you’ll have the time of your life.
- Become open to a variety of new possibilities. The love of your life may well look different then you have previously envisioned. When you fall for someone right away, your connection is likely to fall apart within a few months.
- Rather than becoming invested in the outcome, accept that it takes time to discover if someone might be your true love.
- Spruce up your appearance so that you’re more likely to attract interest. Don’t leave home without looking your best.
- Get out and meet new people every day. Show a friendly interest in others, vary your schedule in order to find the best times to interact with people who may be of interest and ask friends for introductions. Use online dating sites to meet potential dates who you wouldn’t ordinarily encounter.
- Approach new introductions and dates with open expectations and a positive attitude. Rather than trying to ascertain if he or she is “the one,” ask yourself if he or she is a possible new friend. It’s unrealistic to expect that someone who you are just getting to know is an absolute “yes;” they are either a “no way” or a “maybe.”
- View attraction as an opportunity to discover if you’re compatible, rather than as a signal that you must immediately pursue a relationship. As you become better acquainted, you’ll have opportunities to see whether both of your actions indicate that you have similar values and relationship goals.
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Fiona Fine {contributed by Cindy Van Arnam}
I want to grow a movement that’s main focus is to put the fun back into dating. I want to put the passion - the connection - and the fun back into all facets of life so that women can create the love live of their dreams. So if you’re ready to leave your old self behind and tap into your inner Goddess, all you have to do is make that decision. It’s your life and your choice. I’m here to guide you along the way. -- Fiona Fine
{contributed by Cindy Van Arnam}
As a self-glorified Goddess in my early 50s, I’m happier and more satisfied than I’ve ever been. And my flourishing love life is lavishly abundant with wonderful, exciting men lining up to date me. But it wasn’t always like this. After coming out of a long, unfulfilling and unsatisfying relationship I realized I had given up my sense of self in the course of those 10 corruptive years. I wanted to put the pleasure back into my existence and to start living life purely on my own terms. Since that momentous decision I have revived my health, traveled the world and have reclaimed that sultry siren I was in my twenties. In the past few years my dating life has been nothing less than spectacular. I want to start a movement that’s main focus is to put the fun back into dating. So if you’re ready to leave your old self behind and tap into your inner Goddess, all you have to do is make that decision. It’s your life and your choice. I’m here to guide you along the way.